As I grow up many things stuck my mind and it came the turn when I thought what is friends are for? What is the importance of friendship? How to be a good friend?Before I thought it as something which is only pass by my mind because what in my mind is that I still have many friends, schoolmates, I know may people and I thought that is friendsip.
In fact that was such a stupid point of view of friendship even the fool know it, time pass by many things happened after I broke up, I started to see another world that I had lost for 4 years.
It was quite shocking at first, I started to see whom I called them as friend are not actually the TRUE FRIEND and without a true friend how can we make a TRUE FRIENDSHIP?
That was the last question that crossed over and ruin my mind for quite long time. Until one day, I forget what actually happen when I had a conversation with my friend and in the of our conversation he said that :
"True Friendship is not by tongue yet by heart, the strongest bond human can made more than brotherhood." -My Friend's Grandfather.
That simple quote is like revelation after quite a long time asking all the question above, that quote sum up all the things about friendship based on what I know because it is right that "True Friendship is not by tongue yet by heart" many time we said that "Yeah you are my friend" or "Yes you are my besfriend" but in fact those words or any sentence which is merely sound the same are not just morethan a WORD without any meaning behind it. Because True Friend will not have time to say that you are my friend because they are too busy to do things that True Friend will do rather just barking those words. What count is not what come out from our mouth but rather the unspoken things that we feel.
Next part is "The strongest bond that human can made more than brotherhood" may be some of you saying that I am too "lebay" but I believe many of you ever been in condition where your friend can know you better and deeper than your brother or sister. Based on my understanding, Strongest Bond here are the conditions where there is something yet come out from their mouth but we already can know and even understand what they are trying to say.
Therefore,
Everything that turn into action comes from our heart but sometimes our thought involved and take over our "action control" which cause impurity, therefore do not always trust what you hear or see yet always trust what is whispering deep inside your heart. If you feel it right trust it if not ignore it as if nothing happen.
- Me
